B and I were the only two single people in a large group of law school friends. Everyone else was coupled off, so we were always the odd ones out. Paired together at the dinner table, in cabs, in general. I took an ill-advised four day jaunt to Europe for what I thought was love, when it was apparent it wasn’t, B was the first person I told of the disastrous trip. We met for dinner occasionally, he’d walk me to the corner of the block I lived on and then say goodbye. On evenings out, as everyone coupled off, he’d share a cab home with me, making sure I got in before heading home himself.

He was one of my closest friends and then after a few years, we fell in love. It wasn’t a fast process, we kept it a secret for a long time (so as not to disrupt our circle of friends) but now we all laugh. All those other couples have broken up, moved on, have married others.

B and I are celebrating our five year wedding anniversary today.

Five years is a long time but also the blink of an eye. What is they say, the days are long but the years are short? Describes it perfectly. Five years of more good than bad, we still disagree on the right place to hang the dishtowel, how many lights should be on at any given time and what should be hand washed versus what goes in the dishwasher.

But we both love each other, our dog, our daughter. He’s turned me into a hockey fan, and he now appreciates the finer points of a good board game. Our life makes us happy, even when we are overwhelmed by law school student loans x2 or the enormous task of raising a well rounded, polite, and happy child. There is no one else I’d rather be overwhelmed with, the guy that brings home a sentimental bottle of wine because it reminds him of our honeymoon (Napa Valley), who sets out my coffee thermos the night before I have to get up early to go into the office, and never complains that I DVR every episode of Grey’s Anatomy even though I’m 2.5 seasons behind.

And as much as life sometimes overwhelms, it is also full of the small moments and sweet times and I’m glad he is my person for those. For the farmer’s market and the swim lessons, the nights where Gracie runs around like a crazy headless chicken and we just laugh, for the times the dog chases his own tail and we are entertaining, our house full of good smells and food and friends, and we lock eyes from across the room and we both smile, knowing exactly what the other is feeling.

I’m just thankful he’s my person.



ClassPass: A Full Review

As I’ve mentioned once, twice, eleventy billion times, I spent the past 30 days trying out ClassPass (for free, but they didn’t ask/require/suggest I blog about it). I really liked it and I’ve had a lot of questions about it so I figured what better way than write a super long blog post all about it? I know, genius. Long and short of it: I’m going to continue being a ClassPass member, on my own dime, starting in the middle of this month.

What is it?

ClassPass is best described as purchasing a bulk package of drop in classes for area gyms and fitness studios. At $99 a month it isn’t inexpensive, but when you compare the cost of drop in work out fees (the most expensive way to try out a gym per class) or a monthly membership (cheaper per class but typically more than $100 a month) for the “fancier” gyms it is a great deal. When I started it was limited to 10 “passes” a month but now it seems you get an unlimited number of classes with your monthly fee. The caveat: you can only visit one studio 3x in a month. So it can’t be used to “beat the system” on the cost of an unlimited monthly memberships at any gym. Breaking it down:

Flywheel (the spinning gym) is:

1 class = $25 for a drop in class

10 classes = $225

Unlimited monthly = $195 a month

Pure Barre (fancy barre class) is:

1 class = $23

10 classes = $200

Unlimited monthly = $225

So you can see that living in a big city with lots of fancy gyms could get really expensive really quickly. And you can see how ClassPass is a great deal, considering it is $99 for unlimited classes, and if you attend 10 classes it breaks down to $10ish a pop.

How does it work, generally speaking?

You pay your monthly fee and then you book classes! Easy peasy. You book using the ClassPass website, which was generally easy to use (and was just upgraded with some nice features for filtering and sorting classes). You can cancel any class up to 24 hours prior, but if you miss class (eep!) you are charged $20 for a no-show. I learned that try as I might, 6 am classes are not for me- I missed getting to the studio in time thanks to a middle of the night road closure and missed class. Sigh. Once you book the class you get a confirmation email with any info you need about the studio- how early to show up if it is your first time, what you should or shouldn’t wear, if you need to bring a towel/water/etc. You can also directly input your class info into Google calendar in the website, which was very helpful. Oh, and the 3x per studio max includes all locations…so while Chicago has 90 bazillion Pure Barre studios, you can’t visit each one up to 3x.

What did I think?

I really liked it. I made it to 7 classes + the free opening event class…and the 3 misses (going on the assumption you have a 10 class maximium, which isn’t the case any more, but I was operating under that assumption) were avoidable. I missed one class due to traffic, one becuase I planned poorly, and one because I was spacing things out so as not to use up my 10 classes too quickly but I also wasn’t paying close attention to when my 30 days ended…oops! I tried the following:

Flywheel (2x) – Loved it! Definitely an amazing spinning workout in a very sleek atmosphere.

Go Cycle (2x) – A great spinning class, not quite as trendy as Flywheel but I almost liked it more. I took their “Go Yo” combo class- spin followed by yoga- and it was my favorite class all month.

Eb & Flow Yoga (1x)- A “moderately paced” hot yoga class that was the perfect Monday night unwind, I was surprised when the hour ended because I was enjoying it so much.

Pure Barre (2x)- I really liked Pure Barre…well sort of. I hated parts of it (you want me to plank for how long?!) but at the end I recognized it was a great work out that really felt good and cleared by head, so back I went, happily.

Bar Method (1x)- Ugh, the worst (for me) when compared to Pure Barre. Too bossy/too many corrections by the instructor made me feel dumb.

The list of studios is constantly growing and I have a long list of places to try.

The pros, in a nutshell.

I got a plethora of amazing workouts. I tried to rotate cardio with yoga and barre classes, which worked well for me. I’m glad it has become unlimited (rather than a 10 class limit) which will make coming up with a general schedule going forward (as far as picking nights/days to work out). I feel like I’m on the road to being back in shape, and mentally the time to myself was awesome. I took an early Sunday morning Flywheel class and the instructor wanted us to focus on why we woke up early and we were there. For me, I can honestly say, it was about an hour of uninterrupted alone time to just be without email or housework or errands or parenting or anything else. I know that sounds incredibly selfish but those 2-3 hours a week were just what the doctor ordered.

The gyms were all really great about giving me the quick and dirty on their method. They ask you to show up 15 minutes early for your first time to the studio, and every gym gave me a tour, explained what I needed/how to set up and followed up with me after class, making sure I didn’t have any questions. Super accomodating! There were also a lot of gyms all over the city, so it wasn’t hard to find classes near my house (North side) or downtown (where I often met friends). There are even a few studios in Evanston and the Western ‘burbs (although not many).

The cons, in a nutshell.

I hit a few glitches along the way. The Go Cycle schedule wasn’t quite right on ClassPass so I was late for class (they were very nice about it and I think it is fixed now) which was a bummer. You also don’t get the camaraderie of “belonging” to a gym- hard to settle in and find a favorite instructor or become a regular. You probably won’t hear an instructor calling out your name to praise your awesome form or great endurance- and that is ok with me, but for some, it might be a let down. It can also get expensive in the sense that a lot of these “specialty” gyms have special equipment (of course…) and for us city dwellers, you gotta pay to park anywhere, even a gym. Thanks to ClassPass my Amazon wish list has barre socks, a hot yoga towel with grippers to put over my yoga mat, and more work out pants. My list might be shorter than some since I already owned a yoga mat, spin shoes and spinning shorts. And speaking of spinning and cons…since each studio has their own thing, there is definitely a learning curve. At Flywheel my shoes fit in their bikes, at Go Cycle they don’t (so I have to reserve shoes). For the control freaks out there, this could be really frustrating, although over time I’m sure I’ll settle into my group of favorite studios and there won’t be more uenxpected surprises.

If you are strict about who gets your email and maintainting your inbox, it deserves to be said that each studio gets your contact info and emails you….I use “Unroll me” so I can control what I’m getting, but some people might find this annoying. I didn’t mind, especially since a lot of the studios also offered me a free class outside of ClassPass – no doubt trying to lure me into their own membership!

The biggest cons of ClassPass right now are probably the fact that it is only available in a few cities (Boston, LA, New York, Chicago and San Francisco) and they have a wait list. This is great for people who are already in- you don’t have to worry about slots filling up- but of course, waiting on the wait list is a drag. Hopefully over time that will settle out as they continue to grow!

Transparency/Fine Print/Let Me Be Frank:

1. My Amazon links are affiliate.

2. No other links are affiliate.

3. ClassPass gave me a free month to try, and I attended their launch party, but they didn’t ask me to blog/tweet/talk about it. Oh and they sent me a 2nd tshirt after I mentioned I left the first one in a cab.

Another Mish Mash

Somehow it is already Thursday this week, a surprise to me since I could have sworn it was Tuesday, but here we are. Almost Friday! The weekend! Last weekend was nice but quiet- I realized Gracie hadn’t gotten to stay home and just play with her toys in a long time, so after I came home from early morning spinning (at Flywheel, through Classpass) and B headed out to the Bears-Packers game (cheering for both teams to lose) we had a girls day at home. We read a lot of books, put together a lot of puzzles and picnics and put Piggie to sleep over and over again. See also: we need a new term for this game of laying Piggie down, covering with a blanket and saying “shh” while rubbing his back, because it sounds like we are running an animal death farm around our parts. Also, I think we need a back up Piggie.

Anyway. That was Sunday. The week has gone by in a blur- hot yoga Monday night, gymnastics on Wednesday. Gracie’s fourth and final canine is coming in – truth be told we thought it was in, her others came in so long ago, but nope, unobservant parent x2- and she has been sleeping terribly as a result. We also had yet another trip to the pediatrican where were told “yup, no idea what that is/nothing we can do” for a continually swelling eye that has her looking like a prize fighter. There was some concern she migth have been bitten by a bug or had an infected stye, but neither seems to be the case, which is good.

In other news: my boots arrived, I love them so. I ordered Kiwi Boot Spray for them after receiving very little feedback on shoe sprays- something no one is passionate about, eh- after reading about 3 Amazon reviews and figuring that it can’t hurt. I’m going to have B try it out on his new anniversary shoes that are coming, and at a fortuitous time as he basically destroyed all of his dress shoes this week and will make the cobbler very happy in the near future. So much so that I have spilled the beans on his anniversary gift and will give them to him a week early so he can wear tham rather than go court with shoes that don’t match his suit, THE HORROR.

As I mentioned before, I’m trying out some new workout gear (my paltry collection was starting to become an issue with my newfound hobby of attending fitness classes) so I ordered these Beyond Yoga leggings with fancy mesh inlay, I expect them to up my cool factor significantly while quaking through a barre class. Side note: do we think that trend will go the way of the corner cupcake shops? Because right now there is some sort of expensive workout studio with a ballet barre and toned ladies on every corner of Chicago. Anyway, back to the gear. If I like the ones I ordered, I have my eye on a “quilted” pair (fancy speak for pattern) and the gathered bottom style, which I believe will allow me to pull it over my heel while in class which is definitely what all the cool girls are doing. Cool = college age, so maybe acutally I should skip that.

Speaking of things I ordered from Amazon, I also ordered Gracie another container of probiotics. We started these in February, prior to daycare and since I can’t knock on wood every time someone reads this just know that if your kid is in school or daycare and you worry about illness and you wish you could *do* something, I would recommend these. For about $17 for a 2 month jar you can at least feel proactive, and our pediatrician has told us that at a minimum they help recover from norovirus and rotavirus more quickly, which, SOLD. It doesn’t dissolve quite as well as I would like, but she doesn’t seem to notice it in her milk. You can even add it to your Amazon Subscribe & Save!

Speaking of that I got an email from Amazon that beginning in November the discount for bundling 5 or more items is only 15% instead of 20%, and wipes will no longer be part of the standard “diapers and wipes automatic 20% off discount” which displeases me greatly as Subscribe & Save bundling is how we were able to afford premium diapers and organic formula for the cost of regular old grocery store shopping….but Amazon seems to think that a $30 credit will make me happier.  I’m sure for now it won’t be a big deal (our monthly delivery is pretty much just diapers and dog stuff now) but if I’m ever buying infant formula again, I’m sure I’ll gripe.

On the horizon: dinner with some of my best law school girls tonight, another bar class tomorrow, swimming with Gracie on Saturday, friends over for brunch on Sunday (serving this, please make post-haste) and hopefully another early Sunday morning spin class so I can once again awkwardly shuffle through the office Monday morning.

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In No Particular Order

Things that make me happy:

1. Long, all day recipes that you make on a Sunday and that fill your house with amazing smells.

2. Wine nights with good friends.

3. Reading nights with B, particularly when I’m reading a book in paper form.

4. Gracie’s demand for “hugs” throughout the day.

5. When the dog curls up next to me and then sighs a big content sigh.

6. That first cup of hot coffee.

7. Email chains and group texts with my best girls.

8. When Gracie’s daycare teachers tell me she is the class member that always tries to make anyone who is sad feel bettter.

9. Argyle socks.

10. A full tank of gas.

11. FaceTime/Google Chats and the ability to see loved ones on a regular basis, no matter how far they are.

12. Vacation planning.

13. Cooking with a glass of wine, B, and good conversation while we chop and stir.

14. Perusing real estate listings.

15. Football food.

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